Turn to Mentors
Reading
the first chapter of Thrive 5 Ways to (Re) Invigorate Your Teaching by Meenoo
Rami, made me think about how lucky I am for being surrounded by wise mentors
who help me succeed in my field. As an Arabic language
educator at two universities, I have chairmen, coordinators, and colleagues who
are always willing to observe, collaborate, encourage, and share ideas when they
are solicited and needed. We all as educators play the roles of mentors and
mentees to each other.
Dr.
Omran is one of the most helpful mentors I have ever had. We have both been
working at the same institute for four years, but we met just for a few times
in the annual meetings. One day I e-mailed Dr. Omran to share with him my ideas
about expanding the Arabic language courses at the university.Since then, he
has been a tremendous help in preparing the proposal of the course and always praising
and encouraging me during this new project.
Give and Take
Reading the first chapter of Give
and Take and listening to Adam Grant’s conversation with Aimee Groth led me
to visit Google to do some research about him and his book. I found some very
interesting quotes he mentioned in his book, which I believe will be very
helpful for anyone who wants to be successful. Some of the quotes are:
1- “Being a giver is not good for a 100-yard dash, but it’s
valuable in a marathon.”
2-"The more I help out, the more successful I
become. But I measure success in what it has done for the people around me.
That is the real accolade.”
― Adam Grant, Give and Take: A Revolutionary Approach to Success
― Adam Grant, Give and Take: A Revolutionary Approach to Success
3-“If
we create networks with the sole intention of getting something, we won’t
succeed. We can’t pursue the benefits of networks; the benefits ensue from
investments in meaningful activities and relationships.”
― Adam Grant, Give and Take: A Revolutionary Approach to Success
― Adam Grant, Give and Take: A Revolutionary Approach to Success
4-“Highly successful people have
three things in common: motivation, ability, and opportunity.”
― Adam Grant, Give and Take: A Revolutionary Approach to Success
― Adam Grant, Give and Take: A Revolutionary Approach to Success
5-“This is what I find most magnetic
about successful givers: they get to the top without cutting others down,
finding ways of expanding the pie that benefit themselves and the people around
them. Whereas success is zero-sum in a group of takers, in groups of givers, it
may be true that the whole is greater than the sum of the parts.”
6-“Many
people who hold giver values in life choose matching as their primary
reciprocity style at work, seeking an even balance of give and take.”
― Adam Grant, Give and Take: A
Revolutionary Approach to Success
7-“You
never know where somebody’s going to end up. It’s not just about building your
reputation; it really is about being there for other people.”
― Adam M. Grant, Give and Take: A Revolutionary Approach to Success
― Adam M. Grant, Give and Take: A Revolutionary Approach to Success
8-“If
you insist on a quid pro quo every time you help others, you will have a much
narrower network.”
― Adam M. Grant, Give and Take: A Revolutionary Approach to Success
― Adam M. Grant, Give and Take: A Revolutionary Approach to Success
9-“Whereas
success is zero-sum in a group of takers, in groups of givers, it may be true
that the whole is greater than the sum of the parts.”
10-“But
there’s something distinctive that happens when givers succeed: it spreads and
cascades.”
― Adam M. Grant, Give and Take: A Revolutionary Approach to Success
― Adam M. Grant, Give and Take: A Revolutionary Approach to Success
I, too, have had good mentors, which I suppose should come as no surprise because the vast majority of educators with whom I have had contact are dedicated to better the profession for the good of their students.
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